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Remembering Alber Elbaz

Honoring The Rare Creature in Fashion Beloved by All

Alina Cho

Oct 8, 2021
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My mother always says, “You can miss a happy occasion but never a sad one.”

Her reasoning is simple: when people are happy – like at a wedding – they don’t miss you.

But when they’re sad… lonely… grieving… show up and it means the world.

That’s why I came to Paris this week.

Not for the fashion shows… nor to see friends… but to remember one special friend, Alber Elbaz, who died from Covid-19 in April, just shy of his sixtieth birthday.

Photo credit: AZ Factory

Alber was a giant in fashion. Best known as the creative director of Lanvin (2001-2015), where he turned a “sleeping beauty” into something magical.

Photo Credit: Tim Walker for Vanity Fair, 2009

He dressed the biggest stars. Natalie Portman.

Natalie Portman in Lanvin (left to right) at the Golden Globes in 2012; at the Oscars in 2005; at the Governors Awards in 2010

Meryl Streep…

Meryl Streep in Lanvin at the Oscars in 2012

… who – while presenting Alber an award in 2015 – said, “When I put on one of his dresses, I still feel like myself, or just a very good version of her.”

Meryl Streep and Alber Elbaz at FGI's Night of Stars, October 2015

We all felt that way. And yet, that wasn’t what drew us to Alber.

It was his kindness. His generous spirit. His humility. His humor.

Photo credit: Tim Walker for The New Yorker, 2009

You see, Alber was a rare creature in the cutthroat world of fashion: he was beloved by all.

Which is why – on the final night of fashion week in Paris (and after a long month of shows in four cities) — the biggest names came together to honor him.

Not with a memorial service. But with – what else? – a history-making fashion show hosted by AZ Factory, the label he created just months before he died.

Pierpaolo Piccioli of Valentino in honor of Alber Elbaz; Photo credit: NYT

45 of some of the most well-known designers in the world each created an outfit in honor of Alber… inspired by his imaginative work and joyful spirit.

(Left to right) Olivier Rousteing of Balmain, Maria Grazia Chiuri of Dior, Dries van Noten in honor of Alber Elbaz; Photo credit: NYT

Alber’s family and close friends from Israel were in attendance.

France’s First Lady, Brigitte Macron, was there, too.

Brigitte Macron at AZ Factory Fashion Show honoring Alber Elbaz, October 5, 2021

So was Alber’s friend, Demi Moore and her daughter, Scout, wearing the same red outfit she wore when she last saw him.

Demi Moore and Scout Willis at AZ Factory Fashion Show honoring Alber Elbaz, October 5, 2021

Credit: Alber Elbaz Instagram

New York designer, Rosie Assoulin – who got her start as an intern in the Lanvin studio -- created an outfit that she believes “would have made him smile.”

Rosie Assoulin in honor of Alber Elbaz; Photo credit: Vogue Runway

Sure, there were tears, but mostly, it was a celebration of a life – albeit too short – well lived.

At a small gathering of close friends and family on Wednesday, Alber’s loving partner of 28 years, Alex Koo, said this:

The Alber we remember loved pizza and McDonald’s.

Credit: Alber Elbaz Instagram

He loved going for dinner in Koreatown when he came to New York.

Alber Elbaz and friends at New Wonjo in Koreatown, NY, October 2015

And enjoyed taking walks in the park arm in arm with friends.

At his core, a simple man who enjoyed simple pleasures.

I remember interviewing Alber for CNN a decade ago. I had just lost my dad and brought my mom along to the interview to cheer her up (she was a fan). As we walked in, Alber went straight to my mom, put a long pearl necklace around her neck, and said, “I have a weakness for moms.”

She never forgot it, and neither did I.

Alina Cho and Alber Elbaz at Légion d'Honneur Celebration for Vera Wang, February 2017

Alber will live on forever in our hearts.

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  • Carl Monroe
    Sweet guy, virtually the same age. Speaking of moms, i remember his saying he didn't look so good. Sorry we lost a genius, RIP. Alina, enjoyed profile of Sting and Trudie, he's 70 this week. Keep up the good work.
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      Alina Cho
      Thank you so much ❤️
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  • Della Williams
    To his many friends and family, as well as his fans, I am so sorry. His fashions were beautiful as was his heart. RIP.💔
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      Alina Cho
      ❤️❤️❤️
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